So, When Does Presuming Competence Start?

cw: sexuality, expectations, control tactics, alienation, infantilization, bullying One quick question. I was talking to a mom of a 20-something who was unsure if her son was ready to drive. I inquired if there was anything preventing him from driving whether it be epilepsy, sleep issues, untreated adhd, and so on. She then told me Read More…

How “Making Do” Costs EF Spoons.

You know, I really didn’t intend on letting this blog rot on a server for 8 months with no new posts. I was too busy “making do” because I had no choice when it came to spoon usage (for the unaware, see Christine Miserandino’s Spoon Theory. Also, it’s been later stated that Spoon Theory applies Read More…